I’ve discovered something I don’t really like about being an adult: the need to moderate people who are childish.

At another blog (not Anime Diet), someone put up a rather graphic post accusing US soldiers of raping women in Iraq. An individual we shall call “S” responded by attacking her and calling her anti-American.
This struck me as rather beside the point. If rapes are happening, the proper fix is to court martial those responsible and get rid of the problem, not lash out at the messenger. In a matter of jurisprudence, whether or not the person who accuses has an agenda is secondary to whether or not the accusation is actually true.
As it happened, a photographer quickly let me know that it was a hoax, so I posted an entry explaining that while this was a convincing story because it played upon our Vietnam-fueled fears (and thousands of years of rape accompanying war.) S showed up yelling, “NOW DON’T YOU FEEL STUPID?”
This was entirely tactless, and would serve no purpose, so I deleted it.
On the one hand, he’s right that it factually did not occur, but on the other hand, I feel like his gross inability to treat people with respect negates happening to be right.
The original poster had put it in the historical context of rape accompanying war, which is unfortunately true as a general historical argument. It was not true in this instance.
Let the Right One In: a Meta-review
Mr_faust said, “Fuck you, Owen.”
I was intrigued. I read the link, and I’m forced to agree: Owen Gleiberman, possibly through no fault of his own, has not grasped the point of Let the Right One In. Let me show you two quotes from his review:
Are you confused or not, Owen Gleiberman?
Yes. You are confused.
And this is a point of the movie: the confusion of young love isn’t confusion about love exclusively. It’s confusion about everything in life. Why do things appear to happen suddenly? Because when you’re young you have no clue about how to unravel cause and effect, intent and circumstance, mistake and resulting cock-up. When you are young things simply happen.
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- Meta
on November 3, 2009 at 1:06 AM Leave a CommentTags: feminism, film, LBGT, let the right one in, love, metablog, metareview, movie, owen glieberman, relationships, sex, social commentary, transgender, vampire